Being reasonable in a relationship

Being reasonable in a relationship

When you fight with your partner, it is very easy to let your emotions and your mouth run away with you. This can be a very bad thing to do when you are angry however as some of the things that may come out of your mouth might be things that you cannot take back and for some cases, it can spell the end of a relationship. If you want to avoid this happening to you then you need to know the three biggest things that you need to avoid during a fight with your loved one.

  1. Accusations are very bad for the health of a couple. Before you start shouting and screaming accusations at your partner, ask yourself why you are doing this. Has your partner betrayed your trust or is something that has been bought forward from a past relationship? If it were your partner that has hurt you from infidelity in the past and you agreed to forgive and forget to give the relationship another go, it would be unfair of you to keep bringing them up in fights and if it were something from a past love, it really isn’t your current partners fault!
  2. Name calling is something that unfortunately we all do during a fight but this can come with some pretty bad repercussions. Just think about what you are going to shout before you shout it. How would you feel if your partner were to say that to you? Would you be able to forgive them? If you wouldn’t like it to be said to you, don’t say it to anyone else because some things really can’t be forgotten!
  3. Last but not least, don’t make everything about yourself. The fight has happened because two people have two opinions and if you constantly shout and scream about how bad you are feeling right now, you are not giving your partner to express their views and opinions. There is no point in having a fight at all if you are not going to get anywhere from it!

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